Alright - we'll tread lightly. Anything you need to know feel free to ask. There are no dumb questions. Also, if anyone flames you, I'm pretty much the most obnoxious jerk on here so let me know, capice?
(INSIDE VOICE - wait, that was me just repeating what the ex always said - that I was an obnoxious jerk .... I'm still emotionally traumatized by her rantings ...boo-hoo)