You're not keeping me up. I work 3rd shift and have for so long that I can't sleep at night unless I'm really beat.
So, a dedicated ground and still no lights huh? Just to be sure we're troubleshooting working bulbs, take a regular 9volt radio battery, unplug the head lights and touch the two contacts of the battery to the prongs on each light. The low high/beams wil have three prongs. Just touch the battery to all combinations of prongs. Do your light bulbs work?
If your up and fooling with this right now, you're more than welcome to call me on my cell. 502-759-3837