You dare question an electrical engineer on his circuit diagram? Blasphemy! Just for that your hard disk will crash and your power will go out for the next week!
Seriously, though, the wires hooked to the relay aren't in any particular order in my diagram, I just drew up the guts of a standard 2 input relay and put the wires where they needed to go. I was doing this after hours at work, from a combination of the posted diagram and my memory. My home scanner is down and I wanted to get something out for these guys today so I was in a bit of a hurry. The terminals aren't in a line on the physical connector anyways, for that matter. The actual connector (when viewed from the plug in side) looks like this:
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Looking at the picture, the top horizontal connector is the output to the blower motor, and should be wired with a 12 gage wire (red if possible because it's hot), the left one of the 2 vertical connections is the orange (or gray and black) it is the hot wire that activates the relay. The 2nd of the verticals is the relay activation ground. The 2nd horizontal connector is the output from the resistor pack, it is the normally closed contact on the relay. The bottom horizontal connector is the normally open contact, it is connected to the hot wire coming from the alternator.
I have probed the circuit in all states and everything works as advertised. The blower in my car is junk and I haven't had a chance to remove the fender to replace it yet. I know it's the blower because I hit it with +12 and ground straight off a DC power supply and it didn't spin at all.
Just to let you guys know, both the connector and relay are available from Advance Auto Parts online. You're on your own for the resistor pack, though.
Matt