Do you have the parts blow out for that transmission? There's a sleeve for first gear and a washer that goes behind the gear, plus a snap ring then the bearing, then the retainer assembly, then a ring that's 1/16 thick, then another ring, then reverse gear.
You may be missing something. Basically, you need to compare what you've got to the parts blow out to make sure you've got all the parts, and that they are on the correct way.
I had my transmission rebuilt by someone who has done it many times before. I brought him the parts blow out thinking I might insult him. But he thanked me and asked to keep it because there are so many parts it's easy to get something on in the wrong sequence or on backwards.
Also, I had a couple of clips that had broken apart. So in disassembly, they wouldn't be on the shaft. Had I done the rebuild myself, I might not have even noticed that they were missing or required.
I give you a lot of credit for doing it yourself. When they had mine disassembled, they had all the parts in a pan. It was then that I realized that I made the right decision to have a pro rebuild it.