That's what is so strange about this whole transaction. The communication between he and I was pretty good and coming to an agreement on the shipping and the price of the roll bar went fine......then after the bar was bent, and he said he was going to send me my money back, nothing for 6 weeks. I was so confident I was getting my money back, I had already talked to another person that had a roll bar for sale and told him for two weeks I was going to pick it up. He eventually sold it because he said he couldn't wait any longer on me to pay for it